Author Archives: Rob Norris

Show ’em you mean it

Cropped view of a man in a suit speaking into a microphone with his hands in fistsI recently had the honor of judging a university-level speech tournament. In one event, Persuasive Speaking, each of six finalists had 10 minutes to make a case about a cause. Judges looked for knowledge of the subject, a structured approach, documentation of the points made, and a good finish, often including a call to action.

Most of the speakers were good; they had all that. In fact, they were so good that when it was over I had a hard time ranking them.

Yet, something was missing from every one of those presentations—something important. These speakers, who were excellent in every other way, all had choreographed their gestures and movements. Here, I step to the left. Here, to the right. Here, I lift my hand. And all kept their hands at their sides when they were not actively gesturing. Thus, many of the gestures and movements they made seemed forced and false to my eyes.

My guess is that when you feel strongly about something, you don’t rest your hands at your sides. You probably hold them up about belt or waist level so you can easily lift them to punctuate your point, to signal the sharing of information, or to invite the listener to consider your position. You do this without thinking about it. You radiate energy. And the higher your hands, the more energy you show.

There’s a certain balancing act we do when we present in front of an audience, akin to what professional actors do when they perform on the stage. We are “in character” and yet conscious of the audience at the same time. We feel something for real, but we also remember that we are there to get something across. Our gestures are informed by our passion. But they are aimed toward those we’re addressing.

These competitors had the aim right, but not the passion behind it. No one will believe you really mean what you say if you look like you’ve been choreographed. You have to be comfortable enough inside yourself to feel what you ought to feel and be unafraid to show it. When you make a gesture, make it natural and bring it from the heart. That’s one way to show ‘em that you mean what you say.

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Location, location, location

boardroomThere’s an important component of speaking logistics that can make or break your talk: knowing your location.

Where will you be presenting? With what kind of equipment? How will the audience be oriented? Where will you stand in relation to the screen? These details should be nailed down in advance of your actual presentation. If you are wise, you will go and nail them down yourself.

When you arrive at the venue, find out where the light switches are, where the electrical outlets are (will you need an extension cord?) how the room temperature is controlled, and whether there is Wi-Fi. Find out where the sun will be at the hour you present. Will it be pouring in through that south-facing window and landing on your screen? If so, you’d better know how to operate the blinds.

Check the lighting. How and where is it controlled? Is it just an on/off switch? Or will there be a dimmer? What quality of light is it? Strong fluorescent? Soft incandescent?  LED? Whatever it is, put an image up on the screen and see how the room lighting affects it. Adjust either the light or your visuals accordingly. And while you’re at it, make sure you are lit as you speak. Audiences must be able to see you.

Check the projector and connections. If you’re using your own equipment, that’s easy. But if you’re using an in-room projector, then you must test it. If you don’t, you may find when you begin your presentation that this projector’s color temperature is different from yours. You may find that everything looks yellow or magenta because a connecting cable has gone bad. Make a dry run using the very equipment you’ll be using and you can head off some awkward problems.

Finally, on the day of the presentation, bring a back-up projector. Bring every connector you have. Then get there early enough to switch out any equipment that’s malfunctioning.

My partners once walked boldly into a room in our State Office Building to check the venue for a presentation an important client would be giving the following day. They didn’t ask permission—they just went in and ran the slides through the in-room projector. They found that the mandatory corporate color used by the client was several shades too light when projected through in-room equipment.  They darkened the slides accordingly, making it perfect during the actual presentation.

There’s nothing like being prepared.

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Stories make it memorable

storytelling-around-the-campfireThrough most of human history, we told each other stories. Stories set standards of behavior, warned us against danger, comforted us, gave us hope, and generally contributed to our tribal wisdom.

Then, in the late nineteenth and early twentieth centuries, business schools came into being. Those who attended business schools learned about the value of hard, quantitative data. They were taught that data provided the only reliable path to success, that all good business decisions were based on data.

Now, that was not a bad thing, for we need data to find our way to the truth of the matter. The problem was that in this world devoted exclusively to data, storytelling fell by the wayside. Any student who included a story in a paper was advised that this was less than professional. Storytelling may have had its point around the campfire, but it had no place in a presentation to the board. Business decisions had to be hard-headed.

But listen: storytelling has been rediscovered. About 1990, academic articles began appearing that pointed out how effective a story could be when it came to motivating an audience, driving home an important point, and reaching a decision.

Today if you Google “business storytelling” you’ll see a series of articles with titles like, “The Irresistible Power of Storytelling as a Strategic Business Tool” (Harvard Business Review), “Storytelling: The New Strategic Imperative of Business” (Forbes), and “From Bedtime to the Boardroom: Why Storytelling Matters in Business” (Entrepreneur).

Those who have studied the neurology of storytelling say that when we hear or see data, we light up only that part of the brain devoted to language processing. When we hear a story, though, we light up every part of the brain that involves us in the story—imagined sights, sounds, emotions . . . everything. That’s why we remember stories long after we would have forgotten the simple data points. Jennifer Aaker, professor of Marketing at the Stanford Graduate School of Business, estimates that your data becomes 22 times more memorable if it’s embedded in a story. Thus, business has come around to storytelling. It’s memorable and it motivates.

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Crafting the Message Triangle

triangle-blue-equilateralIf you read the last post, you know about the power of three. Did you know you can use it to craft your entire presentation?

Many presenters struggle when they create their content. If they’re describing a study or project they’ve completed, for example, they may feel that they have to describe each step along the way. That gets tedious for the audience. It calls for more information than they can absorb. And there’s no need for it; your audience wants to be satisfied your effort was credible and understand its outcome, no more. Unless you are delivering a technical presentation, the rest is detail, and it is best left to a written report or an appendix.

So when you sit down to put your presentation together, ask yourself what three things you want your audience to remember when you’ve finished. That’s all they will take out of the room anyway. So what are the three most important things?

Now sketch a large equilateral triangle on a piece of paper and write one key point on each side of that triangle. Maybe your points are, 1. Our research was exhaustive; 2. The proposed solution has been used successfully by leaders in the industry; 3. Payback may be expected within three years.

Now, flesh those key points out with talking points. Under “exhaustive research,” you may note the industry standard for research, the number of sources you consulted, the credibility of those sources, and the number of work hours devoted to the task. Then perform a similar exercise with the other points.

When you’ve done this, you’ve finished the heavy lifting. Whenever you need to substantiate one of your key points, you can just reach up and take a talking point off the shelf.

And remember, repetition is your friend. That doesn’t mean saying the same thing five times in a row; it means coming back to your key points as you go along, like a singer comes back to a refrain in a song. Often, your talking points can accomplish that task, reminding listeners of a key point without actually using the same words over and over again.

There are several elements to good content, but this is one of the most basic: have three key points and keep coming back to them.  That will make your presentation memorable.

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The Power of 3

Three FingersHave you ever noticed how many things come in threes? There are three blind mice, three little pigs, three Musketeers, and three Stooges. Donald Duck has three nephews, Huey, Dewey and Louie. Goldilocks meets three bears. King Lear has three daughters. Scrooge is visited by three ghosts. Children learn to stop, drop and roll. They learn their ABCs.

We seem to rely a lot on things that come in threes. We’ve been doing that for a long time. The Romans even used to have a saying, omne trium perfectum: all that is three is perfect.

There’s probably a reason they said so—items grouped in threes tend to stay with us. An attorney once observed that juries can remember as many as three points; if you give them more, they tend to forget them all.  If someone repeats a list of numbers to you, you’re more likely to remember them if you break them down by groups of three as you listen. Try to memorize them in one long sequence and you’ll probably fail.

Items grouped in threes are balanced.  They are ordered. They are simple. That’s why “three” has power. Speakers can use that power to good effect.

Try it. Tell your audience that there are three important things to remember about your subject and hold up three fingers to emphasize the number.  Then shift to one finger to indicate you’re about to describe the first one. If they’re taking notes, they’ll begin writing at that moment. They know three points are easy to nail. But if you tell your audience there are ten important things to remember while spreading all ten fingers out, you’ll get a much less enthusiastic response. There may still be some note takers, but there will be fewer of them and they will not be eager. We dread long lists. We like sets of three.

So consider fashioning your content around the number three. You’ll find your audience retains the three points your present long after your presentation is over.

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What About my Nerves?

A nervous young male holding papers to give a speech and appears to be sweating very bad from his nerves.No one has ever really nailed down the nature of stage fright. It can affect both beginners and veterans. It can put you a little on edge or it can debilitate you. In most cases, it can be handled. In some, it’s not so easy.

The term “stage fright” is said to have originated with Mark Twain, but examples of it go clear back to Moses, who needed his brother, Aaron, to speak for him. Even experienced performers including Lawrence Olivier, Olympia Dukakis, Mariah Carey and Adele have been troubled by it.

So what are we all so afraid of?

There are anthropologists who have suggested a theory. They think it may be about the eyes—all those eyes looking at us at the same time.  Down through human history, the theory goes, everyone looking at you at the same time generally has not been good news. It meant you were about to be hunted/eaten/accused/judged/sentenced. Stage fright prepares you to survive the threat your psyche tells you you’re facing, even though the audience is harmlessly sitting there. All we can see is the judgment we seem ready to undergo, and that can bring some speakers to their knees.

Most of us know the symptoms—the racing heart, the clammy hands, the dry mouth, the nausea . . . and the wish we were anywhere else but here. I don’t really believe people would choose death over public speaking, as so many surveys report, but I do believe stage fright can be a deal breaker.

To combat it, I can offer two tactics and one strategy.

Tactic one is to get all that excess adrenaline out of your system. It’s the adrenaline that’s making your hands shake and your voice quaver. Work it off. Go someplace no one can see you and run in place, do pushups off the basin, shadowbox. At least flex your muscles. You’ll find your hands and voice are steady again, which may help your confidence when you get up to speak.

Tactic two is not to scan the audience when you’re up there facing them. Every time you look at a new face you’ll evaluate how that person feels about you. That will fuel your anxiety. So pick out one, friendly face and talk to that person for awhile, just as though you were the only two in the room. When you’ve reached your point, stop and find someone else. Talk to that person for awhile. Keep doing this. You’re more likely to calm down if you do.

The strategy part is simple, but it may take awhile for you to perfect it. The idea is to look at the audience and think, “What do those people need from me? How can I help them?” When you stop worrying about what they think of you and begin worrying about your message, you’re thinking like a speaker. And that’s the best way to calm your nerves.

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Humor on the Podium

It’s hard to get a laugh; askBusiness audience laughing any comedian facing a paying audience.

So should you try for a laugh in your next presentation?

Well, the tired, old-school advice is to open with a joke to relax the audience and get them to like you. Then, the wisdom goes, they’ll be receptive to your message.

Well, humor does do all those things, it’s true. It does relax the audience. It does make them like you, and it does make them more receptive to what you have to say. It does all those things–if they’re actually amused by what you’ve said. If they’re not, you’ve just crippled your talk for nothing.

The problem is that not many jokes are sure-fire. If you tell a joke and they don’t laugh—what then? Do you swallow and go on? Laugh and act as though they loved it? Either way you look pathetic.

Humor has to be real to work. And in the context of a talk, the most reliable humor is based on something that actually happened to you. Self-deprecating stories—where the joke was on you—tend to go over best of all. If that story is also an example of some point you want to make in your talk, that’s even better. Then you have an easy out. If no one laughs, you can just smoothly bridge to the point the story was meant to illustrate.

There’s a ton of advice out there on how to tell a joke well, but unless you’re a comedian with several audiences on which to try your material, I’d stick with this simple rule: laugh at yourself.

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Avoid this Route to Failure

HiRes-minThere is a swift route to failure in presentational speaking. It’s called not knowing your audience.

Before you begin even begin writing, you need to gather some intelligence about your listeners, for they are the key to everything.

It works like this: your audience is now at point A. When your talk is over, you want it to be at point B. Clearly, your strategy must be to take listeners from A to B.

So where’s point A? Until you know that, you can’t begin.

What do you know about your audience generally? The people attending your talk will all be individuals, of course, but they probably have some similarities. Do they all work at the same place? Are they are about the same age, or do they follow the same cause? Maybe they live in the same neighborhood or belong to the same organization. Find out what they have in common so you understand them and relate to them better.

Obviously, what really unites them is the fact that they’ve never heard your talk. That’s why you now need to find how much they know about your subject.

It’s not uncommon to find that knowledge is mixed. If you’re there to talk about global climate change, for example, you may find that some follow the subject closely, while others have been listening to the debate with only half an ear. If so, you may need to bring the laggards up to speed before you hit your main points. Tell the audience that’s what you’re doing so those already in the know don’t lose patience.

Another great advantage to knowing your audience is that you may learn in advance who the decision makers are. Then it’s just a step to learning how they make decisions. Do they respond well to facts? Are they all about the money? Are there causes close to their heart? You may find four or five decision makers in the same meeting, each of whom needs a special approach. Learn that approach and you’re halfway home.

Now, how do they feel about your subject? Is your subject controversial or politically charged?  Is your audience likely to be open to your position? If they’re on your side, it’s often safe to begin with the conclusion you reached and then cite the evidence behind it. If there’s controversy, it may be better to lay out the evidence before revealing your conclusion.

When you prepare a talk, there’s a lot of homework to be done. Your subject aside, the most crucial piece is knowing your audience—not so you can pander to them, but so you can treat them intelligently and with the respect they deserve.

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Where to begin . . .

Blank canvasSo you need to prepare a presentation. If you’re like most people, you probably feel like an art student standing in front of a huge, blank canvas, hesitant to make the first brushstroke.

Well, here’s the trick: you don’t begin with brushstrokes. That comes later. You start by determining something much more basic.

You start by sitting down and thinking what it is you want to accomplish. What difference do you want to make?  What do you want to be true after your presentation that was not true before you delivered it?

That forms your objective, and it’s worth considering with care because your objective forms the foundation of everything that will follow. Hash it out until you’re satisfied. And when you finally are, chances are that the answer will fall into one of three buckets:

I want the audience to become aware of something

I want the audience to accept something

I want the audience to do something

You’ll find that you more or less have to take it in that order. If your audience never heard of the issue, you’ll have to make them aware of it before they will accept it. And until they accept it, they’re not likely to get up and do something about it.

Yes, it’s possible to accomplish all three in the same presentation, but only if it’s a pretty compelling issue. Don’t overreach. Do what seems reasonable in the time you are allotted and save the rest for another time.

So planning your talk doesn’t begin with animated slides any more than a painting begins with paint on canvas. Both begin with a subject.

What’s your subject? What’s your presentation about? Once you know what you want to accomplish, you’ll have walked a mile in the right direction.

[Next post: knowing your audience]
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Be Prepared

Disaster Plan Key Showing Emergency Crisis ProtectionOne of my partners was recently asked to present a workshop during the 2015 Leadership Symposium of a fine national organization.

“Give us your PowerPoint in advance so it will be loaded and ready on conference room equipment,” said the organizers. That’s typically done when there are several programs on the docket; it makes organizational sense. But it can also set up a treacherous situation.

For the laptop they provide may run an earlier edition of PowerPoint, so half of your special effects won’t work. It may run brighter, so your vibrant colors will fade to pastels and your words may disappear completely. Or it may run darker, so contrast disappears along with your message. Their equipment may mess up your aspect ratio, so everything is stretched and your pie charts look like ovals. If a connecting cable is bad, your slides may all appear to be yellow or magenta. The slides may even be re-positioned on the screen, so the audience sees only part of them.

My partner did as directed and sent organizers her PowerPoint in advance—but she also came prepared. And that made all the difference.

When she got up to speak, she found her PowerPoint had not been loaded onto the laptop in the conference room, the one already hooked up to an overhead projector system. The AV technician whose services had been promised was nowhere in sight as the minutes ticked away, and neither was the production assistant whose job it was to track him down.

No slides, no help, and an audience waiting. What do you do?

If you come prepared, you pull out the flash drive you brought along, the one that includes a second copy of your slide presentation. You plug it in to the laptop, fire up the application, and begin your program. You do this without fuss or comment, for your mission isn’t to get vengeance on the negligent, but to do your job and make the presentation you came to give.

The sad truth is that mistakes—often, multiple mistakes—happen at every event. Knowing that, my partner was not only ready with a spare flash drive, but also with her own laptop loaded with yet a third copy of her PowerPoint.  She would have hooked that up in case the organizer’s laptop failed. She was also equipped with several connecting cables of her own to fit a variety of situations.

The best way to prepare for a presentation—and I’ll admit we don’t always have a chance to do this—is to perform  a dry run on the very equipment that will be used in front of your audience. And even then, a wise speaker is prepared with alternate equipment in case something fails.

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